Can We Talk About What Didn't Work?

Some of the most useful professional learning begins with a sentence we do not always find easy to say:

"I tried something and it didn't work."

Or:

"I wasn't sure what to do."

"I think I handled that poorly."

"I need help thinking this through."

Those conversations can teach us a tremendous amount.

But only when the environment makes it safe enough to have them.

Learning requires more than expertise

A group can contain extremely knowledgeable people and still struggle to learn together.

Why?

Because people may not feel comfortable revealing uncertainty.

They do not want to sound inexperienced.

They do not want to challenge the wrong person.

They do not want a mistake used against them.

So instead of discussing what actually happened, we talk about what was supposed to happen.

Those are very different conversations.

Psychological safety matters

AHRQ describes psychological safety as an environment where team members feel able to ask for help, try new ways of doing things, identify problems, share ideas, and learn from mistakes.

I think that concept fits naturally into professional communities of practice.

A learning community becomes more valuable when people can bring not only their successes, but also their uncertainty.

The most useful question may be: What happened?

Instead of:

"Why did you do that?"

Try:

"Walk me through what happened."

Instead of:

"You should have..."

Try:

"What were you noticing in the moment?"

Instead of:

"That didn't work."

Try:

"What did the experience teach us?"

The goal is not to eliminate accountability.

It is to make accountability useful.

If people are afraid to talk about a mistake, the organization loses the opportunity to learn from it.

Try: Bring the Unfinished Question

Earlier, I shared the idea:

Bring One. Ask One. Take One.

I would add another practice:

Bring an unfinished question.

Something you do not already know the answer to.

For example:

"I am having trouble maintaining this boundary. How have others handled it?"

"I used a reflection and it seemed to make the person more frustrated. What might I have missed?"

"Our peer role keeps drifting toward case management. How are other organizations protecting the role?"

"I understand this skill in training, but I cannot seem to use it naturally. What helped you?"

Those are valuable professional-development conversations.

Leaders help create the conditions

Psychological safety is not created by putting the words "safe space" on an agenda.

People watch what actually happens.

What happens when someone disagrees?

What happens when a newer employee asks a basic question?

What happens when someone admits a mistake?

What happens when a peer professional challenges an organizational practice?

What happens when someone says:

"I don't know."

The response teaches people whether openness is truly welcome.

Community is where experience becomes shared knowledge

This is one reason I continue to value communities of practice.

Formal education gives us frameworks, concepts, research, and skills.

Practice gives us experience.

Reflection gives experience meaning.

Community allows that meaning to become shared knowledge.

One professional's difficult experience may become another professional's useful resource.

One person's question may reveal something an entire organization needs to examine.

Reflection for Practice

In your professional community:

Can people admit that something did not work?

Can newer professionals ask questions without feeling embarrassed?

Can peers and frontline staff challenge assumptions?

Can leaders say, "I don't know"?

Can mistakes become learning without eliminating accountability?

If the answer is yes, protect that culture.

If the answer is sometimes, that "sometimes" may be worth exploring.

Some of the most important professional knowledge begins with the courage to say:

"Here is what happened. Can we learn from it together?"

Sources & Further Reading

Agency for Healthcare Research and Quality, Creating Psychological Safety in Teams

Creating Psychological Safety in Teams

Wenger-Trayner, Communities of Practice

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